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Presidential Alert: The Girls Are Fighting
May. 1st, 2020 08:45 pmUh oh sisters!!!
So yesterday, out of the blue, Alex's ex texted him. She has been out of his life for a while now after ripping and tearing up his self image for four years before he was with me. Once they broke up, she sporadically would text him or email him massive emails about how she has changed, how she is sorry and wants him back, which reads like a pure thirst trap to me. He's ignored her largely for the better part of our relationship, and when she was persistent he told her he was involved with a dude (me) so he wasn't interested, but she has CROSSED THE LINE.
While Alex and I were at my apartment, she showed up at his place to leave him a gift packet and a note about how much she misses him and thinks he must be doing horribly and must be so alone right now, like he doesn't have friends. Then included in the manila envelope package (?) was reusable beeswax paper (??), a ziploc of masks (???), and a book on shiba inus (expected, Alex has a shiba). I was expecting anthrax to be in the package, but artisan paper is just as foul a substance.
Regardless, she is showing that she obviously doesn't respect his boundaries by just appearing at his house unannounced to drop off random shit when he told her to leave him be. If she shows up again, while I'm around, I'm going to have to step outside and speak to her and explain that he is with me, and if she could fuck off it would do us all a great favor.
Did I mention she's doing this behavior while she is in her 30s?
So yesterday, out of the blue, Alex's ex texted him. She has been out of his life for a while now after ripping and tearing up his self image for four years before he was with me. Once they broke up, she sporadically would text him or email him massive emails about how she has changed, how she is sorry and wants him back, which reads like a pure thirst trap to me. He's ignored her largely for the better part of our relationship, and when she was persistent he told her he was involved with a dude (me) so he wasn't interested, but she has CROSSED THE LINE.
While Alex and I were at my apartment, she showed up at his place to leave him a gift packet and a note about how much she misses him and thinks he must be doing horribly and must be so alone right now, like he doesn't have friends. Then included in the manila envelope package (?) was reusable beeswax paper (??), a ziploc of masks (???), and a book on shiba inus (expected, Alex has a shiba). I was expecting anthrax to be in the package, but artisan paper is just as foul a substance.
Regardless, she is showing that she obviously doesn't respect his boundaries by just appearing at his house unannounced to drop off random shit when he told her to leave him be. If she shows up again, while I'm around, I'm going to have to step outside and speak to her and explain that he is with me, and if she could fuck off it would do us all a great favor.
Did I mention she's doing this behavior while she is in her 30s?
